Baby me Shadow

The Baby-me Shadow

The Baby-me Shadow We walk through life with an injured baby (maybe even an injured fetus) inside us. This is the baby we were once upon a time. The one who was really needy, dependent, helpless. The one who experienced inside things that happened on the outside without understanding what is happening and why it …

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Holes in the Matrix

Holes in the Psyche & holes in the Soul Both the Psyche and the soul are made of materials invisible to the naked (mortal) eye, yet, they can still be wounded. Some of the injuries stem from life events, experiences in the womb and at birth, due to early attachment failures and throughout our life. …

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The famous Drama/Trauma Triangle is actually a Square:

The original Drama triangle had three roles – Persecutor, victim and savior.

Missing from it were the silent accomplices – those who knew but did not act, those who should have known but some did not.

Read on to learn how does the missing node – the silent accomplice affect us as therapist and facilitators, and how can we look at the four roles from a safer and more healing perspective.